http://www.articlealley.com en-us editorial@articlealley.com Want some even worse news? When this kind of tactic doesn't work for a guy, he'll usually try harder, and become even more of a wussy to make a girl like him... and the more a girl runs away, the more of a wussy most guys become. You do the math and... http://www.articlealley.com/article_614964_39.html 02nd September 2008 MISTAKE #9: THEY ALWAYS NEED TO BE THE EXPERT Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed to be "right"? Have you ever met someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about... and make a fool of themselves because... http://www.articlealley.com/article_611875_39.html 30th August 2008 I think the reason why I'm so fascinated with "The Genius Failure Paradox" is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life. Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy on the planet... But, I don't think ma... http://www.articlealley.com/article_611816_39.html 30th August 2008 I think the reason why I'm so fascinated with "The Genius Failure Paradox" is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life. Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy on the planet... But, I don't think ma... http://www.articlealley.com/article_611553_39.html 28th August 2008 I get a lot of questions from guys asking all kinds of questions about how to behave around women. In fact, this might be one of the areas that guys want to know the most about. I've been doing a lot of thinking over the past year or so about the co... http://www.articlealley.com/article_611537_39.html 28th August 2008 REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY "INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS" What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out? He looks for information to help him solve the problem. More information is always the answer. Inf... http://www.articlealley.com/article_609765_39.html 25th August 2008 REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY "INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS" What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out? He looks for information to help him solve the problem. More information is always the answer. Inf... http://www.articlealley.com/article_609042_39.html 25th August 2008 Have you ever seen a T. V. show or movie with a girl holding a flower, pulling off each petal one at a time and saying, "He loves me, he loves me not"? This is a famous cliche... even Madonna does it in her old "Truth or Dare" movie. What's going on... http://www.articlealley.com/article_601260_39.html 16th August 2008 If you've gone out with a woman 47 times, and you don't know if she likes you, and you're now thinking, "Oh, hey... great idea! I'll buy her a flower and she'll feel attracted to me..." then get a new idea. Romance isn't a way to make a woman feel attr... http://www.articlealley.com/article_601096_39.html 16th August 2008 Have you ever seen a T. V. show or movie with a girl holding a flower, pulling off each petal one at a time and saying, "He loves me, he loves me not"? This is a famous cliche... even Madonna does it in her old "Truth or Dare" movie. What's going on... http://www.articlealley.com/article_601093_39.html 16th August 2008 I personally think that one of the biggest causes of fear when it comes to situations with women is: Putting too much importance on what the woman thinks of you and what happens in that particular situation. To put it in different words, most guys d... http://www.articlealley.com/article_600177_39.html 15th August 2008 Think about the difference between doing something because it's important vs. doing something in order to learn. So, for instance, if I saw a woman that I wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have to say something charming and original so she'... http://www.articlealley.com/article_600120_39.html 15th August 2008 Think about the difference between doing something because it's important vs. doing something in order to learn. So, for instance, if I saw a woman that I wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have to say something charming and original so she'... http://www.articlealley.com/article_600086_39.html 15th August 2008 You've probably noticed that I don't talk about the idea of "romance" very often. There's a good reason for this. I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_600084_39.html 15th August 2008 Think about the difference between doing something because it's important vs. doing something in order to learn. So, for instance, if I saw a woman that I wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have to say something charming and original so she'... http://www.articlealley.com/article_600047_39.html 15th August 2008 I personally think that one of the biggest causes of fear when it comes to situations with women is: Putting too much importance on what the woman thinks of you and what happens in that particular situation. To put it in different words, most guys d... http://www.articlealley.com/article_599196_39.html 14th August 2008 Think about the difference between doing something because it's important vs. doing something in order to learn. So, for instance, if I saw a woman that I wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have to say something charming and original so she'... http://www.articlealley.com/article_599074_39.html 14th August 2008 I personally think that one of the biggest causes of fear when it comes to situations with women is: Putting too much importance on what the woman thinks of you and what happens in that particular situation. To put it in different words, most guys d... http://www.articlealley.com/article_599050_35.html 14th August 2008 5) Keep Telling Her How You Feel When She Needs Space And as if the last example wasn't painful enough, most guys usually like to use this final "nail in the coffin" technique as well... Here's the situation: You've met a girl you really like. Ma... http://www.articlealley.com/article_594380_39.html 12th August 2008 3) Do "Thoughtful" Things From The Beginning What's better than a nice, thoughtful guy showing up at the door with flowers and candy for the first date? Well, to quote an old Saturday Night Live episode, "Throwing an entire box of thumb tacks on the fl... http://www.articlealley.com/article_587412_39.html 23rd July 2008 Now this sounds like an interesting topic, doesn't it? Why would you want to know how to lose a girl? Well, I'm going to propose a dangerous idea. I'm going to suggest that you are probably already an expert in losing a girl. You might even be... http://www.articlealley.com/article_586239_35.html 23rd July 2008 Another huge mistake men make is giving away our power to women. I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are not attracted to weak men. And I'm not talking about muscles here. If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in t... http://www.articlealley.com/article_585354_39.html 22nd July 2008 Another huge mistake men make is giving away our power to women. I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are not attracted to weak men. And I'm not talking about muscles here. If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in t... http://www.articlealley.com/article_585222_39.html 22nd July 2008 The real obstacle here is the fear. As I mentioned, fear of rejection, or imagining rejection when you should be imagining success, leads to walking away. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Ironically, I've found that the best way to over... http://www.articlealley.com/article_585178_39.html 22nd July 2008 Now let's talk about those rare instances where a woman actually rejects a man. For the sake of this discussion, I want to define "rejection" as a woman doing something that lets you know that she's upset and offended that you started talking to her, a... http://www.articlealley.com/article_573440_35.html 10th July 2008 I think it's important to realize that there's a big difference between actual rejection (having a girl who is offended, upset, rude, etc. to you when you start talking to her) and the fear of rejection (how you feel when you imagine a woman rejecting you... http://www.articlealley.com/article_573439_35.html 10th July 2008 Most men hate the idea of "rejection". I'm not talking about "don't like the idea" or "wish it didn't happen"... I'm talking hate here. The idea of walking up to a woman and having her reject you causes most men to instantly feel sick in the pit of ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_573437_35.html 10th July 2008 3. Making a woman nervous with your body language. If you start talking to a woman, but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in,... http://www.articlealley.com/article_573434_35.html 10th July 2008 Before you read further, I'd like you to take a minute and think about what the word attraction means to you. By the way, I'm talking about the romantic concept of attraction... not gravitational attraction, etc. If you can, write down exactly what ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_570275_39.html 06th July 2008 Solve the problem before it starts. Now, the best way to deal with this particular problem is to solve it before it even starts. The absolute most important prevention method is an understanding of female psychology and attraction. Here are a few... http://www.articlealley.com/article_569381_35.html 03rd July 2008 Solve the problem before it starts. Now, the best way to deal with this particular problem is to solve it before it even starts. The absolute most important prevention method is an understanding of female psychology and attraction. Here are a few... http://www.articlealley.com/article_568627_39.html 02nd July 2008 Why attraction is so important One of the main reasons why I talk about and teach the concept of attraction is that when it comes to these types of situations, the real underlying reason for them is usually that the woman doesn't feel attraction anymor... http://www.articlealley.com/article_568541_39.html 02nd July 2008 Solve the problem before it starts. Now, the best way to deal with this particular problem is to solve it before it even starts. The absolute most important prevention method is an understanding of female psychology and attraction. Here are a few... http://www.articlealley.com/article_568514_35.html 02nd July 2008 Think of attraction like a drug (which it really is). If a woman is under the influence of it, then she's gone. She'll do anything to get more. If she's not under the influence, then you’re gone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn't feel it. ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_568402_39.html 02nd July 2008 One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with that particular person at that particular time. I know that some people will be upset that I'm talking about this whole concept in such ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_568399_39.html 02nd July 2008 Why do women leave men? Interesting question, isn't it? We've all had women leave us... And we've all been in the situation, wondering why she was leaving... and willing to do literally anything to get her to stay. Read the following scenarios... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567478_39.html 01st July 2008 1) Don’t take advantage of something. Let's say that the woman you're talking to is wearing a sexy outfit. She gets up and walks across the room to get something. She knows that you're going to be looking at her. But you don’t. When she turns... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567454_35.html 01st July 2008 2) Eye Contact When a man and a woman make eye contact for the first time, it's usually the man who looks away first. Men are wussies when it comes to doing things that say "I'm a strong, confident person". Looking away when you make eye contact ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567451_35.html 01st July 2008 So let's talk about Sexual Tension... Why "Tension"? Most people don't like the idea of "tension". It's uncomfortable. It usually means confrontation or dealing with someone who's mad at you or who doesn't like you. Tension is seen as a negativ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567447_35.html 01st July 2008 Sexual Tension. Let me ask you a quick question. It's a question that most men do not know the answer to... It's also a question that most women do know the answer to... The question: "What is Sexual Tension?" Take a minute and "mentally an... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567446_35.html 01st July 2008 I don't think it's a good idea to start off with a woman by paying for things. It's much better to allow her to like you and feel attraction for you without the distraction and expense. If you understand how attraction works, you can trigger it usin... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567445_35.html 01st July 2008 I have friends, who are very good with women, that take women to NICE dinners all the time. I'm talking two hundred PLUS dollars for dinner and drinks ALONE. I also have friends who almost NEVER take women out for so much as a cup of coffee... yet they... http://www.articlealley.com/article_567443_35.html 01st July 2008 Let me ask you, what are the most INTERESTING topics to humans in general? Right – drama, violence, scandal, and comedy that is painful to one of the parties involved. Here are a few good ideas for conversation that come to mind: “So what’s with... http://www.articlealley.com/article_566337_39.html 30th June 2008 If you've seen the classic cult movie "Swingers", then you probably remember the part where the guys are discussing how long a guy should wait to call a woman after he's gotten her phone number. The scene really hits home for a lot of guys because it g... http://www.articlealley.com/article_566318_35.html 30th June 2008 I want to talk to you about a topic that is always on the minds of men... It's the topic of paying for things for women. This includes paying for drinks and dinners, buying her gifts and taking her out to shows. The question is: "Should I pay?" ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_565551_39.html 27th June 2008 If you think about it, every situation is slightly different. One time you might meet a woman in the morning at coffee, and another time you might meet a woman at a club at 1 in the morning. If you wait too long to call her back, I think you run the ri... http://www.articlealley.com/article_565475_39.html 27th June 2008 I have had so many readers write and ask me, “How should I act on the first date? What should we talk about? How do you keep the conversation interesting?”, that I felt I should address these points a bit further. The first thing to remember when ... http://www.articlealley.com/article_565426_39.html 27th June 2008 I’ve read all the books that say, “If a woman tilts her head to the side, licks her lips, fondles her hair, and looks over her shoulder at you, there’s a 67% chance that she’s interested in you.” Here’s what I’ve found: The main sign s... http://www.articlealley.com/article_564495_39.html 26th June 2008 Another interesting observation that I’ve made is that women only understand CODE, not direct language. Little boys tease little girls when they’re 8, and women still love it when they’re 28 and 48. I like to find something about them that they�... http://www.articlealley.com/article_564404_39.html 26th June 2008 Many people agree that women are far more sensitive to body language than men are. I have to say that in my experience, women can detect all kinds of things from body language. Ask a female friend to describe what’s going on with a person by looking... http://www.articlealley.com/article_564339_39.html 26th June 2008